What to do..boyfriens withholding?

my boyfreind of six yrs whom i have a son with has moved in with mr ... we have had a rough past with him cheating and flirting we have had an on and off relationship...anyways its been four mths and we have started councleing which seemed to help slightly but now he has said hes unhappy and just waiting to move out but in the same breath says he loves me calls me baby watches movies and snuggles...now its been a week since we have haad we just started getting along...i left to go to the store twice this week and came home to catch him it!!!!wtf i am a really pretty gurl but this kind of thing messes with my head....i did confront him and he said that the way i actis unattractive but really we were getting along just great soo then he says with me is boring i have lots of new outfits which he could carfe less about i do everything a man could want and i kow im good in bed soo what is the deal is he just not into me ually becuz sometimes we do it like every day for a week and then there are times like now when he would and dosr every chance he gets imean is that better than the real thing i can t be that bad