What shld i do in such a situation?

Hi,im married for 5 yrs but my marriage is not happening one(mean not happy)i tried a lot to make it work and happy but year by year it s becoming worst,at the time of my marriage myhubby said he dont need any money or car,but nw he is everyday pressuring me to get him a car& cash as a loan to clear his credit,we both r staying in gulf,till nw he has not yet taken my responsibilityindependently,i borrow money frm my parents without telling him for my personal expenses,im da only daughter to my parents,nw parents r not in a situation to help him,they r retired nw,he s not understanding tht,did he marry me for money?does he love me truely or not im confusd?daily he fights with me,i ve to stay according to his wish, i mean i shld do watever he says, think im slave not his wife,if i dont listen to anything wat he says he shouts at me,he nver understands me and my feelings,he does everything according to his mood or wish,even he loves me whenever he wants,am i in a bad marriage?is my spouse controling or selfish?he s v stingy he never spends money on me?i ve to spend on myself,he s never satisfid with my cooking,washing clothes,washig vessels,cleaning home etc.he always critises on me,he never cares even abt my health,even in pain situation i must do his work,i m not ale to do anything according to my wish,his heart is v hard,no feelings,sumtimes i cry when im alone,r all guys like tht?if i leave him can i get someone better then him in my life?can my life change?can i become happy in my life?etc these r the ques tht come in my mind and i ask myself,my parents have no peace coz of my marriage prob they knw everything,im v emotional and sensitiv girl,my feelings often get hurt and he dont mind at all,plz help me in dis situaton and advice me?me and my parents need peace in life,do u think my husband can change in life after his credit or loan prob solve ?shld i get pregnant in such a situation,im confusd